You would have to check if $_REQUEST['mo'] and $_REQUEST['yr'] are set before the first calendar you have, then if set save those values in another variable and unset the $_REQUEST ones. Then after the first calendar and list, reset them so that the TOC and the list below the TOC can get updated using the month you want to show.
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